Grief: Choose to Dive When You’re Falling

Grief: Choose to Dive When You’re Falling

As I sat down and started to write this month’s writing, I actually sat here for a good long time with many starts and then deletions. Suddenly I realized that for the last couple of days and even in the process of writing, I’d been circling this subject instead of getting into it. I came to see that this is exactly what we do when it comes to grief: we circle around it. It feels much safer to do grief that way. Because when we peer into it, even consider stepping into it, it feels like a deep dark hole- an abyss actually. And we’re afraid if we step into it, we will never come out.

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